Patient and Kind Love
1 Corinthians 13:4-5
"Love is patient, love is kind. Love does not envy, boast, or pride. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of a grudge."
Biblical Context
The central teaching is that love is not just an emotion, but an active and conscious decision manifested through actions and attitudes. Paul gives us a practical definition of what true love is and is not. Love is a behavioral commitment that opposes the destructive characteristics of pride and selfishness. He teaches us that true love is a force that builds and unites, while negative attitudes only divide and cause pain.
Patience and kindness
In a relationship, this means being patient with each other's imperfections and mistakes. It means choosing to be kind, even when your partner is having a bad day or is acting irritably.
Modesty
"He is neither envious nor boastful nor proud" is a powerful exhortation to put ego aside. A couple who lives this way celebrates each other's successes without jealousy, doesn't boast about their own virtues, and is willing to admit mistakes and ask for forgiveness.
Respect and generosity
"He doesn't behave rudely, he's not selfish" reminds us that dignity and respect are fundamental. In a relationship, this means not being cruel with words, avoiding selfishness, and seeking the well-being of the other person above your own.